I never quite know when those moments will come, when the weight of being single will come crashing down upon my chest.
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I grieve that there is no one on the horizon. And if thkught guy does happen to come along in the future, I also know that relationship will be great in its own special way. And when those dreams or prayers were not answered as I had hoped, something deep inside me just aches.
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I am now not doing that, thank goodness…I sure wish I knew how to cope with being alone better and not feel such grief at the way the relationship part hagder my life has unfolded.
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